My father saw the world in two colours. Right or wrong, with him or against him, nothing in between. I grew up thinking that was just what conviction looked like, and for a long time, I built myself the same way. In practice, that meant friendships ran on a kind of test I never told…
The cashier was talking to an older woman in front of me about her grandson’s exam results. Not rushing it. Not glancing at the queue. Just listening, the way you listen when you’ve known someone for twenty years and their grandson’s exam results actually matter to you. Behind me, a woman in hiking sandals was…