Category: Presence & Mindfulness
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(and Why That’s Okay) If you’ve ever opened an old journal and instantly closed it again — heart racing, stomach tightening — you’re not alone.Maybe you’ve asked yourself, “Why can’t I read this?” or even, “What’s wrong with me?” Everywhere you look, journaling is praised as the ultimate self-care tool.Therapists recommend it. Wellness blogs swear…
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When we think of stillness, silence often comes to mind. We picture quiet rooms, empty landscapes, or the absence of noise. Yet stillness doesn’t always live in silence. Sometimes, it’s carried in sound. The hum of bees in a garden.The steady rhythm of rain on the roof.Waves rolling in and out along the shore. These…
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When I was younger, I saw the world in clear, sharp lines.You were either with me or against me. Looking back, I think a lot of younger people see things that way. Certainty feels safer than nuance. It makes decisions simpler, alliances clearer. But it also makes compassion harder. And I’m sure I hurt people…
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Soft rituals for winding down and letting go There’s a moment at the end of the day — just before the emails disappear, just after the dishes are done — when something shifts.The pace softens. The light lowers. The breath deepens. I’ve started protecting that moment like it’s sacred. Not because it’s impressive or productive,…
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I remember a morning on the road when the map looked more like a question mark than a plan. The evening before, I had pulled into a quiet patch of pine forest. There was no cell service, no signal—just the hum of the wind and the occasional crackle of pinecones under paw (my dogs, always…
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In a world that measures worth by how much we do, doing nothing can feel almost scandalous. However, I’ve been embracing the quiet art of niksen—a Dutch word for “doing nothing.” There are no goals and no outcomes—just being. At first, it felt almost impossible. My mind was trained to fill every gap—check an email,…
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I’m someone who smiles at strangers.I say thank you — even when it’s not required.Most days, I give people the benefit of the doubt, even when the world tells me not to. I hold doors open. I check in on friends. I believe in softness over sarcasm, listening over reacting.Lately, I’ve noticed how often this…